Tai Ji Men Qigong Academy

Love never leaves

Many years ago, I was hurt in a relationship and since then, I remained unmarried even after passing 40’s.To many females, being single might be pressured because friends, family and relatives would be concern and ask "why are you still single?" On the top of not being young anymore, perhaps they lose the hope of stepping into marriages because they were also hurt from their previous relationships. And this happened to me as well.

Last April, I decided to travel out of town. Since I would like to learn more about the land of Taiwan, I chose to set off from Taoyuan County where it sounds most unfamiliar to me. During the journey, I also visited Taijimen Zhongli Academy. In the communication hall, I met a Brother who unexpectedly turned out to be Mr. Right in my life. He was willing to be my best listener listening to my stories from the past. A story about a conflict resulted in a break-up between a couple, I could barely keep up with the sharing because it was so heart-breaking. Since then, he would be my tour guide, taking me to new places such as Shimen Reservoir and Fuxing Township Mountain. Because of his accompany, I became happier.

Recalling from practicing Tai Ji Men Qiqong, my Shifu, Dr. Hong, Tao-Tze, Zhang-men-ren of Tai Ji Men once said, "Health and Wisdom are hard to purchase with money. Happiness and bravery must be learned by hard-working." Because of his words, for these years, I try very hard to let-go the bad experience from the past; and never ever disapprove myself again, and continue to have faiths in marriage. Moreover, I also believe that I will have a bright future. When seeing new couples getting married, I will send the most sincere blessing from my heart to them. I am grateful to have Shifu’s guidance and to have myself always be good-hearted, always let go of the past and treasure the present.

Time is flying! We knew each other for 3 months, dated for the following 3 months, and prepared the wedding for another 3 months. Just right on the Christmas day of 2012, I got married at the age of 41. Now I can say that I have worn the wedding dress. The clock that was once stopped in my life had started working again. Now, I feel that my life is full of happiness because my Brother husband shares his everything with me, and that I have the chance to make up the gap of life and complete my circle.

My love story has just begun. I am willing to hold my husband’s hand till we are very old, and to manage a happy and joyful family together. I will give my sincere wishes to those unmarried men and women who are anticipating the arrival of love and happiness. As long as you keep a charitable mind with love all the time and always be optimistic, I am convinced that you can also find your Mr./Miss Right and together create a fabulous life.