Tai Ji Men Qigong Academy

The new thinking of family happiness

Due to the work, my husband lives outside the city during the weekdays and only comes back during the weekends or vacations. Thus I need to take care of everything at home by myself. I am a career woman and live with my parents-in-law. All those things inevitably make me feel big pressure. Few years later after the marriage, I had been not adapted to this kind of life. Sentimentality is my nature. While faced with some difficulties, I always think about the dark sides. Leading such an unhappy life, I gradually felt that I almost could not stand it anymore.

Fortunately, with the referral of my husband’s colleague, my husband and I could take the opportunity to practice qigong in Tai Ji Men. At that time, my purpose of practicing qigong was to help myself regain good health. Before practicing qigong, my body was like a meteorological observatory. Catching a cold was something that usually happened to me. In addition, the pressure of life often resulted in the headaches and gastrointestinal diseases. After practicing qigong for a few months, I felt that my resistance to colds had enhanced apparently. I haven’t caught a cold for a long time!

My Shifu often teaches us ""look at the positive side of everything"". He also reminds us that the Chinese character ""closeness"" could be divided into two Chinese characters which mean to see the hard work from each other. With such thinking, I can understand my husband’s hard work and appreciate for what he has done for the family. He works so hard for us that he sacrifices enjoying the warmness of family at the same time. Whenever I think of his condition, I no longer complain that he is seldom at home. Although we don’t spend much time staying with each other, our love is still growing. Moreover, I really appreciate my parents-in-law. They care about my family more because they know their son is not always at home. In the past, it was quite difficult for me to accept all the talks from them. After changing the attitude of mind, I tried to regard their reminders as their love to me. I also changed an indifferent me into a caring daughter-in-law. Then I usually show concerns for them, caring about their living conditions and their health. Little by little, they know I am a daughter on whom they can depend. When all the pressure was completely released, the troublesome headaches and gastrointestinal diseases were all gone naturally.

My two children are all Tai Ji Men Dizi. In the beginning, I worried that we would not be so close. I am very thankful that they can grow up in the Tai Ji Men Energy Family. Everything they do is positive and everyone they is great. These would help them to develop a good perspective and positive attitude of life. I am really grateful to my Shifu. Because of Tai Ji Men, all my family can keep a healthy body and mind and learn the wisdom of life. All the relationships among our family members are very wonderful. We are a happy and joyful energy family !